On Father’s Day we take time to show appreciation for the
first, special man in our lives. He was there when we were young, organizing
ice cream outings; teaching the fine art of catching a fly ball; wiping away
tears; or coaching a kindergarten soccer team. As we grew older, Dad taught us
to drive both a car and a golf ball and to manage our money while taking his.
He encouraged us to discover the world, while always making sure there would be
a home to which we could return.
So whether you’re celebrating your dad or the father of your children, here
are activities to plan for the day to build a base of memories that will last a
lifetime.
If the Dad You’re Celebrating Has Young Children...
...then you’re probably his wife. If so, plan activities that your
husband can enjoy with his children. What are some of the favorite things your
children like to do on their own, or with you, but that Dad never gets to share
with them?
Get Messy in the Kitchen with Dad: Do the kids enjoy
mixing things up in the kitchen? If so, plan a cooking project that dad can do
with them. You supply the ingredients, they make the mess, and you do the
clean-up when they’re done. If you’re lucky, they may let you sample their
creations. Good cooking projects for young children include dipping pretzels in
melted chocolate (be sure it’s not too hot); preparing a cookie dough mix and
dropping the cookies on a baking sheet; mixing up a batch of pancakes and
letting Dad wield the mighty spatula; creating homemade play dough which is a
fun project to mix and play with after they’re done.
Life’s a Picnic: If Dad never gets enough of the great
outdoors, plan an outing to one of his beloved nature spots. Pack a picnic that
includes Dad’s favorite sandwiches and side dishes. Remember to bring along a
blanket large enough for the whole gang, and plan a few fun games for when
you’re done eating such as catch, frisbee, or simply a good game of tag and
tickle.
Take a Stroll Down Memory Lane: Parents take so many
photos and videos but unfortunately can never find the time in their busy lives
to enjoy these memories. So make the time on Father’s Day to pull out the
scrapbooks and home videos. Gather the kids, the popcorn, candy, and juice
boxes and Dad can watch his favorite little people in action.
What I Like About Dad: Help the kids to write their own
play for Dad, about Dad. Have each child take a turn playing Dad and acting out
their favorite things that they most love about him. Remember to take videos of
the show to enjoy on future Father’s Days.
If the Children are Tweens or Teens...
...they probably have their own ideas about what they’d like to do with
Dad. But this is his day, so make sure that the kids think more about what dad
would like to do than how they would choose to spend the day. Here are some
ideas.
His Favorite Things: By the time kids are tweens and
teens, they’ve learned how to express, very clearly, when they don’t want to
join their parents on an outing. But today is the one day when Dad can ask them
to join him in his favorite interest and expect to receive no complaints or
long faces while doing it. Whether he wants company going to a car show,
hiking, or watching a golf match, the cheerful company of his children will make
Dad’s day complete.
Arrange a Little Competition: If Dad is just a bit
competitive, but does his best to play nicely with the kids, on Father’s Day
tell him it’s okay to play to win. Any game is fair play and whether it’s an
intense game of checkers, chess, tennis, or bocce, the only requirement is that
the kids are good losers when Dad does his victory dance.
Daddy Trivia: No eye rolling allowed with this
activity. This is the time to invite Dad to share all of his well worn
childhood stories with you. Turn it into a reverse trivia game by making a long
list of questions that you ask Dad about himself. Then sit back and enjoy the
stories as he enjoys sharing his life with you. This would be a great activity
to record on video.
You’re All Grown-Up...
...but you’ll always be his little boy or girl. Spend the day enjoying
his company but take the opportunity to repay him just a little for all that he
has done for you over the years.
Take Him Out to the Ball Game: He probably brought you
to your first baseball game if he is a fan of the sport. This time you buy the
tickets and take him out to see his favorite team play. Load him up with plenty
of peanuts, hot dogs, and his other favorite ballpark goodies. Of course you’ll
be the one making the trips to the concession stands.
Rock and Roll If Dad has always been into rock and roll
and still plays a mean air guitar, purchase tickets to take him to see his
favorite classic rock band in concert. It doesn’t matter if it’s not your taste
in music. He had to listen to your favorite bands for many years.
Be the Handyman: It’s impossible to count the things he
built, assembled or repaired for you. But there are probably plenty of jobs he
could now use a little help getting done around his house. You could wash the
car, change the oil, mow the lawn, repair the screen, or organize his tools.
Pull up a chair so that he can watch and chat with you while you get something
done for him.
Invite Him to Join You in a Time-Honored Father’s Day Tradition:
Inviting Dad to a barbecue is a classic way to spend the day, for good reason.
It’s a great way to serve dad his favorite food while you relax together, eat,
talk, eat and talk some more. There’s nothing quite like remembering past good
times together while creating new memories for the future.
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